女人10大情感需求

　　1-The protection of her most valuable: Her Reputation

　　1.女人最重视最、维护的便是她们的名誉。

　　个人说明：这也是一定要阻止反荡妇防卫机制开启的重要性，否则可能会一招走错满盘皆失

　　2-Women want to FEEEEL a range of emotions. Do not try to make her happy, give her a full range from fury to ecstasy.（ This is a.k.a. her Drama Cookie）

　　女人想感觉一系列的情感变化，别尝试仅仅让她高兴，让她从生气到惊喜这一系列的变化效果更好。

　　个人说明：女生喜欢惊喜，喜欢浪漫。如果一味的让她发笑，她也会感觉无聊，或者给人很贫的感觉，给她惊喜，让它保持新鲜感也是你成功的关键。

　　3-Cater to the little girl in her. Know the difference when to ignore her ramblings and when she needs you to give her a hug. Sometimes she just needs to be reassured like a little kid。

　　迎合她心中的那个小女孩，要分清当你否定她的邋遢和当她需要你的拥抱的时候差异，有些时候她正像小女孩一样需要有安全感。

　　个人说明：台湾女理学大师張怡筠也曾经提高过这个观点，每个女孩子内心里都是个小女孩，需要人的关爱与认可。我们在使用推拉技巧的时候要掌握好火候，最近论坛很多人发帖子推拉失败，绝大多数是因为没有掌握好使用时机，很可能在女性展现小女孩需要安全感的时候你使用了推，反而让她觉得你不可靠，导致失败。

　　4-Be dominant and take responsibility for leading the relationship. This includes making all the decisions, and taking 100% responsibility for the sex in the relationship. It all has to be the mans fault.

　　在交往的过程中要做主导。这包括做所有的决定，全全为性关系负责。这也是让男人老犯错误的原因。

　　个人说明：女人要在关系中做主导，便会极力支持，导致失去吸引力并被淘汰。这也回到泡学、主旨：维持好自己的柜架。

　　5-She fears abandonment. This is part biological programming, as in the event she is left with a child, she needs to be sure that she will not be abandoned, and left alone to care for it. This covers her emotional need to feel secure.

　　女人害怕被抛弃。这也是女人生理机能的一部分，像只剩下她和孩子，她需要确保她没有被抛弃，只剩下她一个人照顾孩子。她需要感觉到安全覆盖了其他的情感。

　　个人说明： 女人不停的在问男人是否爱她应该就出于此，因为她们害怕被抛弃

　　6-Trust. The key here is if she can trust you to be honest with her; even if you know she will not like what you have to say. In a womans reality, she is used to people lying to her ALL THE TIME because of the way she looks, or they simply want something from her. If you are willing to piss her off with your honesty, you have demonstrated that she can trust you.

　　真诚。关键是如果她确认你对她是忠诚的，即使你知道她不喜欢你说的内容。在女人的现实观里，由于她看待事物的方式让她觉得别人一直在对她撒谎或者是想从她这随随便便的得到些东西。如果你的真诚能打动她，你便向他证明了她可以信任你。

　　7-Her physical safety. A man must demonstrate that he is capable of protecting her physically from the threats of the outside world. This is to make her feel safe.

　　她的身体安全，你必须向他证明你能保护她不受来自外部世界的恐吓，你必须让他有安全感。

　　个人说明：女人不停的对你进行就是想验证你是否有能力保护她，给她安全感。

　　8-Women need to know you can handle her TRUE sexuality. She will only be as wonton with you as you demonstrate that you can handle it. She needs to explore her sexuality and let it be free with you as a Natural Woman

　　你必须要能满足她的性欲，如果你能满足她，她便会粘着你，对你依依不舍。她需要探索她的性欲极限，并和你一起让它释放。

　　9-Prove that you have high quality sperm by showing other girls want to have sex (procreate) with you, and/or you are a good catch and he kids with you will also be a good catch enough to also attract a mate.

　　通过其他的女孩想和你SC

　　来证明你的遗传基因是优秀的，或者通过你追女孩子同时能吸引到她的同伴来证明。

　　个人说明：天涯何处无芳草别只因一个女人无视其他女人，而且你可以发现女人并不对这样的好人感冒，因为他们觉得这样的男人没有吸引力，想拥有女人你就必须改变态度。做一个“坏”男孩

　　10-Prove that you are not a homosexual. She knows every homosexual male friend she has that is not out of the closet yet. Could you be one too?

　　证明你不是个同性恋，女人对他周围的男性同性恋朋友很敏感即使你隐藏的很好。

　　个人说明：这个不用分析了吧。。。。

　　知己知彼 百战不殆 了解这些你也就更了解了女人

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